tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post4414464889107347097..comments2023-10-05T11:27:27.382-06:00Comments on Kazzy's Ponderings: everyone looks like ants down thereKazzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04411131948607000725noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-1270869278046411762008-11-22T15:14:00.000-07:002008-11-22T15:14:00.000-07:00Mr.4444 is in the same boat, but I think it's just...Mr.4444 is in the same boat, but I think it's just a coincidence that he's in his 40's and hates his job; it's a relatively new job for him, and not recession-proof, so he's liking it as much as he needs to :)Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-91777823645862985902008-11-16T09:53:00.000-07:002008-11-16T09:53:00.000-07:00Kazzy, I saw your comment on Lisa's post and reali...Kazzy, I saw your comment on Lisa's post and realized we have a lot in common. My husband also served his mission to Montreal, and I grew up in Springville! What years was your husband in Montreal, and whereabouts do you live in Springville? I lived a block away from Art City Elementary.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17162550253703038825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-27827019211802530432008-11-15T01:16:00.000-07:002008-11-15T01:16:00.000-07:00Is thirty five too early for a mid-life crisis to ...Is thirty five too early for a mid-life crisis to set in? Because I'm starting to wonder about <I>my</I> better half. . . :)<BR/><BR/>I love the lookout into the valley there. It's amazing how serene everything looks from above and it's great to go up and forget about the little details going on down there. And to remember that, while it sometimes seems like all those details, stressful and otherwise, are our reality, the calm serenity that we see from those higher places is ALSO reality.LisAwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03299284773832500834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-6599767509489358802008-11-14T23:50:00.000-07:002008-11-14T23:50:00.000-07:00My husband is in his mid 40's and I think he is in...My husband is in his mid 40's and I think he is in the same place as your husband career-wise. I think there comes a time when men pause to see if it is as good as it gets, and it can turn into the so-called mid-life crisis if they lose their footing in life. Trips to the mountain (in our case, the coast) to gain perspective is indeed "medicinal". It doesn't fix the problems per se, but it helps us to step back and look at them at diffeent angles. <BR/><BR/>You look like you have a really nice family. And they indeed are all boys! You must be super woman to keep up with all that masculine energy and stamina.Little GrumpyAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14065581455480762162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-58078924797555537192008-11-14T20:20:00.000-07:002008-11-14T20:20:00.000-07:00I love what you said about the climb and the view ...I love what you said about the climb and the view being medicinal. I am willing to bet that the view meant even more to you because of the physical effort it took to get up there. I tend to appreciate something more if I worked really hard to get it. It seems counter intuitive, but sometimes the more dents and scratches we pick up on our way to a goal, them more it is a salve for the soul.Luannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09351294335229984366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-2459743257539331962008-11-14T19:28:00.000-07:002008-11-14T19:28:00.000-07:00Wow, you can really express things vividly. It see...Wow, you can really express things vividly. It seems hard to imagine doing any one thing for twenty plus years, I think it is human nature to get restless. Sounds tough. I hope no one gets seriously hurt in the smashing.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815636729823126855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-585748112633478360.post-36740524437944778922008-11-14T19:00:00.000-07:002008-11-14T19:00:00.000-07:00No doubt (about the rock smashing part)! Is there...No doubt (about the rock smashing part)! Is there a perfect job out there? If there is, I sure want to know about it. I know you love yours but I doubt you could support your family on it (salary--D-). My husband retrained for his current profession because it was less stressful than what he had been doing and so he would have lots of time off with the kids. Every teacher loves his job in June July and August but it is only November and all the teachers (or so he says) are starting to complain of fatigue. We spend a lot of time thinking about what he could/should/would do if he had a choice--but it is hard to come up with anything that doesn't have the parts that need to be "surgically removed". Sigh.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.com